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NYC or Los Angeles: where is better to live?

NYC or Los Angeles: where is better to live?

Determining whether NYC or Los Angeles is “better” depends heavily on how your income interacts with each city’s unique tax structures, housing markets, and transportation costs.

In 2025, the primary financial “divider” is the cost of mobility: New York allows you to live without a car (saving ~$12,000–$15,000/year), whereas LA almost mandates one. However, NYC’s local income tax often eats into the “savings” found in transit.


1. The Family of Four

Income: $200,000/year (Married Filing Jointly)

At this level, you are “middle class” in both cities, but your lifestyle will look drastically different.

Factor New York City Los Angeles
Take-Home Pay ~$142,000 (after Federal, NY State, and NYC City tax) ~$149,000 (after Federal and CA State tax)
Housing Likely a 2-3 bedroom in Queens (Astoria) or Brooklyn (Bay Ridge). A 3-bedroom house with a yard in “The Valley” (Sherman Oaks or Northridge).
Childcare Winner. NYC offers universal 3-K and Pre-K, which can save a family $20k+/year per child. High-quality daycare is expensive and rarely subsidized for this income bracket.
Education Highly competitive public “specialized” schools; private is $50k+. Strong public schools in specific pockets (South Pasadena, Santa Monica).

 

Verdict: NYC is slightly better if you have kids aged 3–5 because of the universal Pre-K programs. If you value a backyard and a suburban “house” feel, LA is the clear winner, as $200k in NYC rarely buys a detached home with a yard.


2. The Young Couple

Income: $100,000/year (Combined)

This is the “sweet spot” where the choice depends on your social priorities.

  • NYC (The Car-Free Lifestyle): You can live in a “hip” 1-bedroom in Bushwick or Upper East Side. Since you won’t need a car, that ~$1,200/month you’d spend on a car in LA can go toward a higher rent or dining out. Your combined take-home pay will be roughly $75,000.

  • LA (The Space & Sun Lifestyle): You’ll likely live in a 1-bedroom in Silver Lake or Culver City. You will almost certainly need at least one car. Your take-home pay will be higher (roughly $79,000) because there is no city income tax, but car insurance, gas, and maintenance will likely consume that $4,000 difference and then some.

Verdict: NYC is better for social connectivity and career networking. You can maximize your $100k better by using the world-class transit system and avoiding the “hidden tax” of California car culture.


3. Single Person of Modest Means

Income: $40,000/year

At this level, both cities are objectively difficult, but one is much more “survivable.”

  • NYC (The Roommate Reality): You will need roommates (likely 2-3). NYC has a “40x Rent Rule” where landlords require your annual income to be 40x the monthly rent. On $40k, you only “qualify” for $1,000/month. You can find this in deep Brooklyn or the Bronx with roommates.

    • Pro: NYC’s Fair Fares program (half-priced MetroCard) is available for low-income residents.

  • LA (The Car Trap): While you might find a room for $900 in East LA or the Valley, the cost of a car will crush you. Gas at $5+/gallon and high insurance rates can easily take 20% of your take-home pay.

Verdict: NYC is significantly better. Being poor in a city where you must drive is a recipe for debt. In NYC, you can walk, bike, or take the subway for a flat monthly fee, and the density of “free” entertainment (parks, libraries, street life) is much higher.

Summary Table: Which City Wins?

Persona Winner Why?
Family ($200k) LA More space for the money; NYC “Family Life” is an endurance sport.
Couple ($100k) NYC The “car-free” savings allow for a much better social lifestyle.
Single ($40k) NYC Car ownership in LA is a financial impossibility at this income.

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